The most powerful secrets are the truths you know you can’t reveal. That, once spoken, changes everything.
I need advices to questions I can’t ask. Problems I can’t speak of. And people I can’t mention of.
I’ve come to a point that it’s no longer healthy to keep it within me but there’s no one I can speak to. Everyone knows everyone. That is precisely why I shudder in my thoughts every time I think of just letting it out.
Am I doing the right thing now? Is this the best for everyone? I do not know.
Secrets are like stars. They blaze inside the heart and eventually become explosive.
Keeping secrets, I’ve learnt, is pretty much like carrying mental weights around. Unknowingly, with each passing day, their burden grows heavier & you’ll find yourself getting weaker as it slowly saps every ounce of energy in you.
I wish I was stronger. I wish I knew what to do.
One day my daughter might come up to me and say, “Mom, I’m fat/ugly/whatever.”
And I will take her to the grocery store. I’ll show her all of the different sizes and shapes of her favorite fruits. And I’ll tell her, “Now, what’s more important? The way the fruit looks, or the way the fruit tastes?” And she’ll say, “Well, I guess the way they taste is more important.” And I’ll say, “That’s right. It doesn’t matter what size you are or how you look on the outside, as long as you’re sweet and delicious on the inside. Because you can be the prettiest looking apple in the whole store, but if you’re rotten on the inside then they will just spit you out.”
^ that’s a very good analogy
so remember kids
no matter what you look like on the outside
someone is still going to eat you
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A psychologist walked around a room while teaching stress management to an audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they’d be asked the “half empty or half full” question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired: “How heavy is this glass of water?”
Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.
She replied, “The absolute weight doesn’t matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it’s not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I’ll have an ache in my arm. If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed. In each case, the weight of the glass doesn’t change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes.” She continued, “The stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water. Think about them for a while and nothing happens. Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt. And if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything.”
It’s important to remember to let go of your stresses. As early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down. Don’t carry them through the evening and into the night. Remember to put the glass down!